I know, I know! 4 MONTHS SINCE MY LAST BLOG!!! What can I say, I've been busy...and procrastinating...and, and...that's all I got. Anyway, let's get caught up on some happenings! If you grew up in the late 80s, you will catch the twist on words I used for my Title. My kids LOVED 'Duck Tales'.… Continue reading Deck Tales
I know my grandson, my kids, my nieces and nephews, and my soon to be niece's husband (so is that like a nephew-in-law?) will appreciate this Blog. Along our driveway we had a fence...that was not well secured...that fell over and hit my SUV...the fence came out. However, we still needed something to keep the… Continue reading Lego…For Adults
17 days. 17 days since I have written a Blog. No, I didn't fall off the face of the earth. It was spring and then summer now, and I am in my yard. And loving almost every minute of it. Wait till you see some of my projects. But first... Oh boy...I love animals...I love to… Continue reading Deer Reconnaissance
Hello everyone! Yes, it's been awhile. I have been in my yard...in my front yard, in my back yard, IN MY YARD. I don't even hurt that bad...today anyway. 😉 In 3 of my previous posts I promised some updated pictures...so pictures you will get. (If you missed the previous blogs, you can find those here: … Continue reading Planting, Planting, Planting…
I love Fairy Gardens. I love anything miniature. I'm not sure what the fascination is, maybe it's the memory of a little girl who loved dolls, and dollhouses, and Barbies, and all things well...little. I would most dearly love to build a dollhouse...for myself...and someday soon, I will. Perhaps that will be one of my winter… Continue reading Fairy Garden House Tutorial
Thank you God for a beautiful weekend. And for my husband who was willing to give up a gorgeous 'working-on-the-car-day' to 'fixing-the-flowerbeds-for-my-wife-day'. (Happy wife, happy life!) 🙂 It was a little cool and cloudy and breezy in the morning, so Ward did get to work on his car a little bit. I told him I… Continue reading Flowerbed Complete!
I know it's after Mother's Day, but I had to share the marvelous Tea my daughter made for me. It was phenomenal! We had planned to have it in a Park on Mother's Day, however the weather was a little too unsettled to risk rain dampening our parade. Besides the fact that Bethany would have… Continue reading Tea With My Girl
Happy Mother's Day to all Mom's, and to three of the Best Mom's I've ever known... Our Mom, who is no longer with us, but who I think of so very often. I miss you Mom, and I love you. My Mother-in-Law, who is so sweet and kind, and I am so grateful she is in… Continue reading Mother’s Day Treasures
Last week was a stellar week! Went Monday, because it was raining, to pick up landscape ties, rebar, and nails...and last Wednesday was the day. The day I started digging out the dirt in our 2nd tier of our 4 tier flowerbeds and actually it wasn’t too bad! It only took me an hour and… Continue reading Oh Goody…Flowerbed / Tier Repairs
This is such a profound insight on the movie “13 Reasons Why” I had to reblog this. I would like to add my own thoughts as well.
I have not watched the entire series…I can’t. Beauty Beyond Bones is much stronger than I. I have watched excerpts, and read many synopsis and reviews. It’s horrid.
Our Dad committed suicide 18 years ago. Being a survivor of suicide I have another aspect I wish to share. I fully respect “Beauty Beyond Bones” insight that troubled souls need to talk to someone and there IS a way out…I totally agree. However, I also want to expand on an aspect “13 Reasons Why” did not address when you are in that moment you don’t think about that. You can’t. Suicidal people usually are wracked with depression, anxiety, etc. I know the series is more pointed toward blaming others, yet not all suicidal people do so; they blame themselves. I myself, while I may not have issues with suicide, do struggle from time-to-time with depression. And when I am heavily hit with the wave, there is no ability to reach out for help. It’s not that simple. At this stage in my life I do recognize the signs and am able to make myself get out, walk, talk, connect with someone.
When Mom passed away, our Dad obviously went into a deep depression. We did everything we could think of. We visited…often…we talked on the phone…we helped him…we taught him practical tips for living alone. We were there. Of that, I have no doubt. Dad was seemingly doing all the right things, visiting with friends, resuming work, going out for supper. Dad was also saying the right things; those things we were taught to listen for. “Are you eating, Dad?” “Yes, I cooked myself a steak!” Great! “Are you getting out, Dad?” “Yes, I went for supper with….” Great! I talked to Dad about his faith, and relying on God to help him. We thought everything was going swimmingly, and then a few days after another visit and phone calls he took his life. In the end…when someone has decided to follow through, they do.
Beauty Beyond Bones post also states, “It is no one’s fault.” And she’s absolutely right. It isn’t. I love her post, and only wanted to add my thoughts as I have friends and family who have lost loved ones to suicide, and many, many, did not ‘blame’ anyone, but rather feel so inadequate in themselves they truly believe the world and their families would be better off without them. Unfortunately, as Beauty Beyond Bones states, “and everyone is left to put the pieces back together.”
“Just A Little Something” from my heart today.
“13 Reasons Why.”
The Selena Gomez – produced Netflix show that remade the YA fiction novel by the same name.
The topic? Teenage Suicide.
I didn’t want to watch it. Clearly, this is not a light subject matter, and not particularly something I wanted to watch alone in my studio apartment in New York. But given my affinity for Justin Bieber, and as a result, his first love, Selena Gomez, I wanted to see what she produced.
And well, after watching all 13 episodes in less than 48 hours, I have some thoughts. Strong ones.
Suicide is never the answer. It should never even be an option. Let’s get that right out of the way from the…
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